when referring to Him i will just say "God". He is God and the one and only true God.
"...now i'm not trying to hurt your self esteem...my goal is to obliterate it, dismantle, decimate and destroy your self esteem completely. matter of fact, nothing would thrill me more than to once and for all rid you of this cursed and damning disease of looking to self for esteem..."watch the sermon here"...God's desire is for us to totally forget self, to look not at self at all, to turn from any hope, any confidence or any value in yourself..."
"...you see, we need self esteem like we need cancer. what we need, and all we need, is Christ esteem..."
"...Jesus did not die for you because you're beautiful and attractive and desireable. Jesus died for you because He has the capacity to love the most unlovely and the most deplorably wicked...His grace that He extended to you without any merit on your part is what makes you beautiful and desireable and wonderful..."